5 Ways to be a Jerk to Your Adoption Caseworker

I have been through the adoption process and know it can be intimidating and stressful. But please understand that the caseworkers are just doing their job and doing their best to be your advocate. It helps if you cooperate with them, even if that means jumping through more “hoops” than you think are necessary.

While your caseworker is your advocate and tries to keep your process “on track,” they need you to provide the required information/documents. If it is necessary to attend trainings or meet additional educational requirements, please complete them in a timely manner. This also applies to timely completion of paperwork. As an adoption caseworker, I get discouraged when I am waiting on a piece of paperwork that is holding up a family’s process.

Yes, most caseworkers are busy, but should still value your time. If they need to reschedule a visit with you, they should give you a fair notice, but the reverse also holds true. Please value the caseworker’s time and let them know if a scheduling conflict comes up so they don’t have “no show” visits.

While some caseworkers may be harder to get in contact with, it is beneficial to stay in touch with them as much as possible. It will help your process go smoother and quicker. It is also important to communicate and inform your caseworker if any major life changes occur: employment change, home change, financial change, etc.