Sure, everyone has a right to have personal point of view. Not always relatives are supportive about even the idea of adoption. However, the final decision of a family shall never be grounded just on family’s attitude. <br />When one of spouses is against adoption, it is much worse. Counseling is the best option for you. There are a few services online where you can get free psychologist’s consultation, including on adoption issues. BTW, the agency that guided our adoption process provides such service for their clients for free. <br />In any case, be just confident in yourself, research the issue, provide your relatives with more successful adoption stories. Finally, just persuade them that you have a right for taking your personal decisions, even if no one supports you.<br /><br />Good luck to you, ladies.