Inter-Family Adoption

withopenarms, Thank you for replying. I think counseling is going to be the best decision for her. She got married at 18, left her husband at 19 and was divorced at 20. He was a horrible person in many, many ways. She met the father of her baby and started dating him within 2 months of leaving her ex. She never really has had a decent relationship and is still very immature. I have broached the topic with her to some degree. What I am truly afraid of is her saying that she wants us to adopt, us getting absolutely everything ready and then her changing her mind. I know that can happen in any adoption case, but my sister is extremely quick at changing her mind and not thinking about the consequences. However, I would rather her pull the rug out from under my husband and I, much as it would hurt, than to do it to some wonderful couple who is just dying to have a family. There are just so many questions that go with all of these proceedings, I'm glad there's someone out there who understands. AngelBlue