Letter To Daughter

Hi all, It's been a while since I posted here but I have been reading posts. After 6 years it hit me last night that I've not had a fathers day card from Alisha. I get a christmas card in about feb/march but never had a fathers day card. Is this what adopted children are told not to do? alright she is only 6.5 and can't exactly go to the shops and buy one to post, but is it not the resonsibilty of the new adopted mother to do this. Or is this a taboo subject that adopted children cannot do? Or am I to be punished for something I did not do for the rest of my life.