Boy or Girl? Can we choose?

We are not limited to legal risk. We just our first placement in over 2 years of being licensed. They came to us before Christmas and went home the end of Jan. The caseworker raved about what a great job we did. The grandparents even complimented us on how great the children looked and how much progress they made in such a short time. I know some people who read my posts think there must be something wrong with our family and that is why we haven't been placed. That is not true. We are a great family! We send our homestudy out for waiting children in and outside of our state. We were chosen for the final group of homestudies for one child, but we were not chosen. I get frustrated waiting and waiting.