Boy or Girl? Can we choose?

honeyb - As you have stated, most agencies do not want you to specify gender because they have matched prior to birth and do not want any suprise pull out's for the "wrong" sex. Having said that, some agencies will let you give a preference. Just be aware it will lengthen your wait substantially - not only because 1/2 of the births will be boys - but you will also be excluded from bmoms that do not know the gender - limiting yet again the potential bfamilies that you can be shown to. Are you open to any race or do you feel that your criteria is strict in other areas? Bumpkin