Dealing with guilt

I have just subscribed to this thread.. I was not going to post anything because I am a birthmom.. But I want to say that I am incredibly happy that my bson is who he is.. He is part of his family.. He is very family orientated.. He takes good care of his babies.. You learn that stuff by example.. I have been reading a lot of amoms posts lately.. I have not commented because I have nothing to say or add.. But I see the issues you guys go through.. Jackie