Birth Mother expenses????

I was not trying to insult you! I was simply asking somone to assist my DH and I as we enter a new experience..... You took what I said the wrong way! When I say that a Birthmother is blessing us, I mean she is a very strong and brave woman to make such a courageous plan for her child. But since I was asking a question re: agency fees; I didn't think I had to write an essay. I am sorry if you were insulted.