Is having a fundraiser tacky?????

So I guess Spaypets the answer to my question from you is that YES you think it is tacky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I do not look at adopting my son as a charitable event, I think that I need to do whatever it takes to bring him home. My husband and I have been trying to have a family for 4 years. I have had 2 miscarriages from which I have to pay $14,000. How would you feel making a monthly payment on the most difficult thing in your life?????? Well I am sorry to hear that you think less of people who are less fortunate. How would you feel if a few thousand dollars was standing in your way of becoming a parent??? My husband and I have no children and this will be our one and only chance to have a family. I just wish we are as lucky as you!!!!!