Questions to ask birth parents, answers adoptees wish they had.....

beyond medical info. (which will change in 20 years anyways, with how fast technology and science are working together)This sounds so silly but these are things as an adult i think about:I have wanted to know that:My bmom thinks of me on my birthdayI know my bmom wanted me to be happy and successful in life...but how? did she want me to get married, have kids, explore the world, serve others. As she choose adoption, i would want to know, what kind of dreams and hopes did she have for me with my a-parents. Now this as an adult, as a child growing up pictures and little get to know you things...would have been really awesome.