Help...termination of parental rights hearing in two weeks!!!

Congradulations Jen: Right Now My wife And I are going thru the same thing. My son's Bio-Father (I call him my son and not my stepson because that is how I feel about him) was willing to sign the termination of rights until a couple of days ago. Our problem is that he does come by to see him about once a year even though his visitation rights are for every other week. Whenever He did see our son he was a real jerk. Such as tripping him when he was just learning to walk. Up until a couple of months ago he had not paid any child support and even told my wife that she would never see a dime. That is until a judge told him that if he missed even one payment he would go to jail. This man has FIVE children by four different women. So we are hoping that all of this will convince a judge to revoke his parental rights. Anyway I am very happy for you Jen