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Our 15 yo, whom we are adopting, would like to go to a movie with her boyfriend and another girl. 15 yo doesn't always make the best choices. She lies. She manipulates. We are not crazy about the fact that she has a boyfriend, but we are also aware that if we try to shut it down, she'll probably be pregnant in a month. (no, we do not believe they are sleeping together because we have eyes on her at all times, except when she's in school). Her girl friend is sneaky and I just get a bad vibe off of her. She is rude....and she is also moving out of state in a few weeks (thank God!). So, do we let her go to the movie? Boyfriend seems okay, but how do we know? We are so torn. Do we give her the rope and let her hang herself? Do we go to the movie with them and sit 5 rows back? Any help would be greatly appreciated! :confused:
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Our 15 yo, whom we are adopting, would like to go to a movie with her boyfriend and another girl. 15 yo doesn't always make the best choices. She lies. She manipulates. We are not crazy about the fact that she has a boyfriend, but we are also aware that if we try to shut it down, she'll probably be pregnant in a month. (no, we do not believe they are sleeping together because we have eyes on her at all times, except when she's in school). Her girl friend is sneaky and I just get a bad vibe off of her. She is rude....and she is also moving out of state in a few weeks (thank God!). So, do we let her go to the movie? Boyfriend seems okay, but how do we know? We are so torn. Do we give her the rope and let her hang herself? Do we go to the movie with them and sit 5 rows back? Any help would be greatly appreciated! :confused: