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[font=Century Gothic]I don't really even know what to write since is the first time I am "talking" about this at all but I think that I am pregnant. I have all the "symptoms" except a missed period because it's not that time yet. But I just have a feeling. I am very scared. I am 23 and my bf. is 25 and we are both finishing school this summer and moving across the state together. So, while this doesn't seem like a terryifing situation because we are both adults and he has a great job..I am scared out of my mind. I can't sleep or eat. I haven't told him or my parents that I think I might be. I feel like I will be the biggest dissapointment to my family. I am the first to get a full degree and was looking forward to getting a job and in the near future hopefully getting married. I don't know what to do....this all feels like I am looking into someone elses life.... [/font]
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[FONT=Comic Sans MS]Okay, the first thing to do would be to test and find out if you ARE really pregnant! I'm not sure what symptoms you are talking about, but if you haven't missed a period, but are feeling sick, you could actually just be sick. No sense in scaring yourself to death before you even know for sure. [/FONT] :)
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Yes, I would agree with Lauri here. You should go get a pregnancy test and find out for sure if you really are pregnant or not before you give yourself a heart attack when you don't know for sure.Like a year, year and a half ago, when I was with the bdad of my 5 month old, I thought I was pregnant and gave myself a heart attack worrying about it. Come to find out, my period was late that time because I was stressing over possibly being pregnant, how ironic. Anyway, I stressed out over nothing that time, it was a month or so after that when I found out I really was pregnant. So, go find out for sure with a test before you start stressing over what could be a false alarm. Anne :D
And about worrying about being a disappointment to your family, I can relate to that in a way. This last time when I found out I was pregnant with my now 5 mo old, I was scared to death to tell my family that I had gotten pregnant again because I had already had and placed my now 2 year old.But your family may just surprise you, mine did. They've been the best, loving, supportive family to me through all of this and they weren't at all disappointed in me like I thought they would be. They just wanted to help me in any way that they could. So, don't second guess your family or their reaction just yet, if there really is a pregnancy to tell them about. Anne :)
I have to agree with both you ladies .... first test if you miss you period. Dont work your self up. It is an added stress and if you are you dont need to be stressed but since you have not missed your period yet ( since the time has not come ) you really have no need to worry. I thought I was pregnant several times before but come to find out each time I was wrong So just wait out your period and see
Beth,
You'll probably be sick to death of this advise :) but get that pregnancy test done first before worrying yourself silly. If you're not pregnant you can get on with your life but if you are then it's not the end of the world you have time to decide what's best for you.
Good luck!
Philippa :)
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