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dpen6
Its a crap shoot wheter you adopt or give birth. For any parent whether bio or not to just think thast this child WILL end up like great aunt gerties is doing a diservice to the child.
I gave birth to all my children. My oldest, who was raised by his adoptive parents looks the most like me. He has a lot of his birthfather's traits. My two that I am parenting look nothing like me and have tons of athletic ability. (I didn't walk until I was 18 months and I am still not very good at it.) I am amazed and astounded daily by all my kids. Getting to know them has been a joy. I am glad I did not get a bunch of mini-me's. To be honest, I do not think that highly of myself.