Foster/adopt vs. domestic infant adoption

The fact is, it takes about 2.5 seconds to get attached to an infant. This being said, you run the same risks if you go private OR foster adopt. A birth mother can change her mind and you would be in the same boat you would be in if you had fostered. Also, we adopted our son's thru foster care one was 2 days old the other 8 weeks old. They are both healthy and doing great. As a previous poster said...just because they are in foster care does not mean they are not healthy.