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My dear,
I am a bmom not an adoptee so maybe you don't want to hear from me. My son was 32 when we reunited. He has said to me that he wasn't ready at 18 or even 25. In your case I might want to back away too, but I think I'd want to keep the line of communication open. Does she send you pictures, etc. even if she doesn't answer questions? Do you tell her about your life now? Do you send her pictures? You could simply tell her that you recognise that you want to move faster than she is ready for and that although you are backing off, you will be there when she is ready.