I want to give up my child but have concerns.

I thought I might make a suggestion, I'm not sure if you have thought of it yet or not. You You could try to find an adoptive family online that you could pick yourself and get to know them long before you ever have your baby. You would then go through an attorney, if you so decided, to finalize and everything. Although this is not a site to look for adoptive parents, there are many many other sites out there. I have heard a lot about the baby safe haven and it its a wonderful thing. I think you should weigh your options like many have already said and do what you feel is best. Also, I really liked what thanksgivingmom said "You are NEVER required to place your child just because you've matched or selected a family or anything like that." That is so true. Although it may hurt the adoptive parents, they know that if you change your mind, that is your right, as a mother to do so. Best wishes!