I want to give up my child but have concerns.

I just want to chime in and say that even if you do match or find a tentavive family you are intersted in that does NOT mean you OWE them YOUR baby. Before anyone else this is YOUR baby and YOU make the final decison. All too many times, I have heard emoms and bmoms say that they felt bad about letting the PAPs down. Better to let the PAPs down that to live a lifetime of pain and hurt. EZ