kakuehl, what information are you referring to?
:grouphug: Thanks for your responses. I guess what we're all saying one way or another is that whatever we choose to call our biological mother's is acceptable - and also that the term may change as the relationship, if any, changes too.
I was referring to the comment that your biological parents were dating casually and that she never told him she was pregnant. The reason I asked is that somehow it seems the information parents were given in closed adoptions wasn't always accurate. D's parents were given accurate information but not everything that I gave the agency was given to them.
I agree with you, btw, that there is no one right term for "biological parents." Words have different meanings for all of us; what is acceptable to one person is considered offensive by another.
