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Thread: Reunion Anger & Other Emotions
I am just speculating, but since they just told him @ 14, and went on to having you all visit, so quickly, I think they had a reason. Perhaps they thought he was rebelling, or he knew' something' but couldn't figure what. For some reason I think they hoped that having this reunion would help him in some way. So I would stay in IM contact as much as possible, and listen to his concerns, and his feelings about life.This is a very very difficult time in every boys life.I am glad his aparents brought in some back up.lolI would tell you above all, do not take everything a 14 yr old says too literally. They tend to exaggerate,and add a bit for drama. They may also play adults against each other, so take any horrible deed he describes, with a grain of salt. Ditto his 'anger.' do not let himmanipulate you with it. Just say sorry and move on and he will be over it.lolI think the best thing he could ever have is you as a sounding board during these teen years. Congratulations to both of you.
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