If we let her take the baby home for the ten days to work around the insurance, the attorney said then we run the risk she definitely changes her mind, and then she asked is that a risk we want to run.
I know YOU didn't day this, but this line of thinking makes me want to vomit. If taking a baby home for 10 measley days would change a mother's mind would you actually WANT that baby still? When M didn't want Tyler to go to cradle care she was encouraged by all to bring him home till she TPR'd and we went to court. She didn't do that for various reason on her part. If the mother changes her mind because she took the child home, that was never your child...it was always hers.
that kind of thinking really makes me angry...like they are trying to protect the aparents from the "risk" that bmom will change her mind by limiting the time bmom spends with her child.