Sitting on daddy's lap?

You absolutely did the right thing!!!! DH gets...happy...from looking at me doing the dishes, sometimes. The is no way to control it You are doing what is right for your daughter, Especially due to her age and her history. Bless your mother, she is being grandma and sees your daughter as innocent as fresh snow and the world is made of marshmallows. We all need a person like that in our lives. :p