Sitting on daddy's lap?

i would hope that if they knew you did foster care, and why some kids are in foster homes, that they would shut up and trust your judgement because you obviously know something they don't. but i guess that is not always the case and not everyone thinks like that. i know as a foster parent, when another foster parent tells me their child is not to do something i know that there is a pretty good reason most times and can figure it out on my own.