Sitting on daddy's lap?

It seems that whenever our parenting and boundaries have to be different than what generally occurs with most people then we get questioned. . I too have had to set some boundaries that others might not understand. After a few incidents and discussions my closest family members have learned they have to follow my lead Considering the majority of foster children in my home that were abused (SA or otherwise) it was a family member that did it, I am always cautious around ALL family members. Call me jaded but to be honest not all of the people who abuse children LOOK like monsters, most of them look like you and me.