RAD and food, fake hurts?

I'll second the timer at the table-- mine used to sit for HOURS (literally, totally by choice, completely free to leave) at the table saying he "wasn't done". A girlfriend suggested the timer and it worked super well. He'd get ten minutes after we had finished and then the plate was picked up. I don't do it routinely now, but it has come out when he kicks back to that habit. I also, as others have mentioned, determine his portion sizes and he can ask for more if he wants...which is rare since he'd rather die (and I'm only half kidding) than ask me for anything. If he's elsewhere he'll ask for plate after plate and show off eat for the attention. I guess I don't give good enough attention for that show :arrow: .