bp went thru our neighborhood friday

Is it a neighborhood that someone could casually "happen" to go through? My neighborhood is a little out of the way, and no where near anywhere the bparents would be going. It is a closed neighborhood so you could not cut through to get somewhere else? Tell us more. Do the bparents have you names/address? Have you met them? I would be terrified if our FD's bparents found out where we lived. They have a long history of agressive/assaultive behavior. I would absolutely tell CPS. Good luck.

Is it a neighborhood that someone could casually "happen" to go through? My neighborhood is a little out of the way, and no where near anywhere the bparents would be going. It is a closed neighborhood so you could not cut through to get somewhere else? Tell us more. Do the bparents have you names/address? Have you met them? nope. although we are off the main road, the only thing there is our addition, so you'd be having to come see someone to come through it. and it would be pointless and not an effective route to use it to get to another place such as the gas station or heading to a store. It be easier to stay on the main roads going to the HWY, not to mention, every other time he's left, he's gone directly to the main HWY never has he that we are aware of followed our path home. they have our names, they should NOT have been given our address for any reason. all paperwork just says fp have been given their copy. all docs, dentist say that they'd not give them our info plus we have the girls and I have to take them to the doctor so there'd be no chance of them even getting that info that way by accident. The only way he could of was b/c he paid attention and we made the mistake of going straight home after visits. We only see them picking them up and dropping them off (the girls) I have supervised 1 visit w/mom before and 1 visit the other night w/dad. other than that its supervised by a social worker.

Call CPS - actually, email them so that they have it documented in writing. This is one where I would email the social worker and copy her supervisor. Depending on the parents' history, I would also consider contacting the local police and filing a police report. If there is a court date in the near future, I would specifically ask that this incident be included in the Court report. Tell the kids' attorney about it as well. Ask for a Court order instructing the bioparents to stay away from your home. Good luck.

This happened to another foster family I know. They also live on a street you would not travel on, it's a dead end. She contact the caseworker immediately. It was brought up in court and he denied it, but the judge still ordered him not to. Did you teach your address to the kids for school? That may be how he got it, one of the children could have told him. Myfs is being taught that his address in the one of our local dyfs office, this way we can be sure if he does tell them, it'll be incorrect. If you see him again, take a picture with your phone

If they have your first and last names, it is beyond super easy to find your address online. pipl, white pages, etc. Just googling your name they can find your myspace, facebook, etc. There is really no way to keep anything like that completely private due to the internet age.I'd mention it to the CW, but don't be surprised if they ignore it!