finding someone to adopt out my baby

When I was first doing a search for a local agency, I pulled out the phone book and there is a lot in there. If you don't have one, your library will. But do some research about the agencies before you go with one. I was originally with a domestic agency that went out of business a month later, and I'm a bit embarrased to say I didn't research it well enough. I didn't make that mistake again. but the phone book is a great starting point. Good luck!! I hope you find a good supportive agency. *big hugs*

i'm pretty sure she was talking about the posters that had their messages deleted. :)

I agree that an adoption attorney would be worth looking into. Most of them can handle everything an agency can handle as far as counseling, getting you profiles that match what you want etc. You might get a more personalized feel from an adoption attorney.Heather

Hello, Im a birthmom that placed over 20 years ago and the options were so limited. The times have changed so much now!! I am now on the other side of things and pursuing adoption. So DH and I looked at several agencies and adoption attorneys and we found a very reputable place (did tons of research). Our biggest concern was treatment of birthmoms and access to therapy and support. 20 years ago, I was offered none of that. Placing a child is one of the hardest decisions you will ever make. I would Google away and then check the Better Business Bureau ratings. If they pass that test, you can call and ask for referances!! Any reputable place should have a list of other moms you can email or call to find out what their experience was. YOU have every right to choose your baby's family and s/he does not have to go to Mormons. I hope you find a situation that feels right for you

We live in Washington State. We are a lesbian couple. My partner is a PH.D psychologist and I am a homemaker. I have raised four children and have two grand children, My partner is 48 and I will be 55. We love children and want to start a new family. We already have an extensive family support system. My partner has a grown daughter as well. Three of my four grown children live nearby and my partner's daughter lives nearby. We own a very nice home in Tacoma, WA. I am an RN with a BSN in Nursing and have a BA in education as well although I haven't worked for several years. I've been going to school taking classes in computer science. I plan to remain at home once we adopt. Write back if you are interested. We would love to hear from you.

Have you consider a private adoption? To be honest my husband would love nothing more than adopt. Would you consider meeting us in person?I know that it has been few weeks since you've posted your question so maybe by know you have found someone. If not, please let us know.Kat

I would be very so much interested in giving the child a home. I am 26 told I was going threw menopause and cant have kids. I would love by the grace of God to take the baby in our home. I have no kids 4 bedroom house and my husband is a fire man. I love kids please let me know either way. I would really love to be your child mother. I dont mind paying for your doctor medical bills as well if needed. :grouphug:

Hi .. my only additional comment would be that if you do decide to call a lawyer, a good way to find one is through the adoptionattorneys.org website. The lawyers there are members of the American Academy of Adoption Attorneys and have to have significant experience to qualify as a member. I needed to hire 3 different adoption attorneys and found them through here with good results. GOOD LUCK TO YOU TO YOU.

I would love to be able to help anyway i can. i was a teen mom. My daughter is almost 7, i know there is allot to deal with during a pregnancy. i dont know anything about agencies or adoption, but if you want some one to talk to about anything, feel free to e-mail me. i didnt really read the rules so i wont post my phone number...... but you can look me up on Face Book if you would like. its Michelle Bytheway...... there are not many with my name. Good luck

I know you have alot of choices to make.You do not have to go through an agency,you can do private adoption through an attorney.If you would like more information I will be glad to talk to you.Contact me and I will share information that I have found.

i am lookin to adopt a newborn..but everything needs to straight..email me at lovelychay21@yahoo.com...

Melodeanne -- your message points out one of the many hard things about adoption, whichever side of it you're on: there's just too many options! Just what you want when your back is up against a big emotional wall: agencies to research and family profiles to read. Whichever way you go, follow your gut. If you feel strongly about the kind of family, stick with it. There are thousands of agencies and thousands more families who are hoping to pursue an adoption independently -- more than enough for you to be able to stick with what's important to YOU. Hang in there, and good luck.

Hello, my husband and I have an approved adoption home study. We were planning to adopt over sees. We have a 7 year old son that loves babies (he is a sweet child). My husband and I both have a university education and live in a nice home on the east coast of the USA. I will not pay anyone for a child, but if you want your baby to have a good life, with educated parents that can provide for their every need. We are your family. You can contact my social worker at kristie@adoptionpromises.com

Hello, my husband and I have an approved adoption home study. We were planning to adopt over sees. We have a 7 year old son that loves babies (he is a sweet child). My husband and I both have a university education and live in a nice home on the eat coast of the USA. I will not pay anyone for a child, but if you want your baby to have a good life, with educated parents that can provide for their every need. We are your family. You can contact my social worker at kristie@adoptionpromises.com .

If you go with an adoption attorney, please make sure they are only representing you. If they are also representing the adoptive parents your best interests may not be served. Counseling is also really important. Go to a regular counselor, not one adoption related. I have immense concerns about how agencies and attornies operate in Utah.