Help - having serious doubts about adopting...

Oh goodness yes! I have a bio son and after unexplained secondary infertility we adopted our younger two children from Guatemala. While I truely did want to adopt (was never that good at being pregnant anyway) I still worried about it being the right thing to do and how it would effect all of us. And even now with my kids being home over 5 years, I still have days I worry about them as teenagers and adults and how they will view their adoption. Only you can decide if your fears are such that you need to consider if adopting really is the right thing for you and your family, but I do think that fear of all the unknowns is very common. Good luck!!