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I think you are doing very well to be back here so soon. I know it still hurts. I also think you are handling the situation very well, as far as your daughter is concerned. Telling her that her baby brother will be there some day is not only the best way to avoid having her grieve the loss, but it is also the truth. You just haven't found him yet! I couldn't avoid having Julia grieve over the loss of the little girl we didn't get, because we actually had her for 24 hours.
I'm glad that there is a milk bank that you can donate the milk to, if you don't get a baby soon, so it can bless the life of a baby somewhere. Since your response to the protocol was so good, you might not even need it, unless you have a situation that comes up without much time to get things started again.
Darillyn