What to say in the card

I'm on pins and needles waiting for news from you Rach!!As part of our adoption education, we were fortunate enough to go to a "birth mother panel." It was 4 birth mothers telling their stories about when they placed their babies for adoption (from 5 months ago - 8 years ago.)All of them but one, said no one sent flowers and that they would have liked them. One bmom said the only flowers she got were from the aparents, and that she really liked and appreciated them.We brought our baby's bmom flowers to the hospital. We got a premade card at the flower shop that was pretty (not sympathetic like for a funeral) and it said "Thinking of You." Then we all signed our names (DH, me and DDs) They were the only flowers she got. She really liked them and they added joy to the room.Keep us update!!! Can't wait to hear!Nora