What to say in the card

As a birthmom getting any flowers in the hospital was nice, especially since I was on a floor with all new Moms, everyone had tons of flowers and balloons - so getting some flowers from the AP was really appreciated. As far as a card, I got a card saying something to the extent of thinking of you, and the inside they wrote they thought I was a strong and amazing person (I'm paraphrasing here). What really meant a lot during that time was feeling like a normal Mom, getting flowers and cards, getting visitors in the hospital who oohed and aahed over the baby, well it was great to feel normal. I put good thoughts towards you, I know how tough to waiting was on my end and I imagine your side of things the waiting is even worse.