Saying no to a placement

For me I wouldnt say no to a short term placement but I'm not adopt, just foster with a willingness to go concurrent for an infant/good fit older child. I would say no to a kid with sexual acting out or who had done alligations and that is because we too have older boys in the home, one kid is 21 and in college the other is 12...8 yr old too. Sexual issues would not work in our home nor would a gang banger.... You have to know your own comfort zone and then stand up for that and even though it feels bad you have to ensure the people already in your family remain safe! Dont feel bad, feel empowered by knowing you made the right choice!