Saying no to a placement

I've only said no once, and it was because they called the day after I got our FS and so we are full. I asked her not to even tell me about the child (I can't say no once they've told me, I'm too easy).I don't think you should feel badly at all. I have a dear friend who went though her DS being accused of molestation by a foster child. Her DS was cleared of the allegations, but it was very trying on the family and it hurt her son a lot.