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So, my husband is taking a job 3 hours away, in another state, and we're supposed to sign our "Intent to Adopt" in another week (fingers crossed) or so. Once we sign that, as I understand it, it will be sent to Richmond (capital) for SS#'s, name changes, etc. THEN once that comes back (hopefully in a month's time) we go into "waiting" for the judge to sign everything. My question is AFTER the judge signs... are we truly done? Could we move the next day? We obviously don't want to be apart, but this move is to benefit the girl's future anyway... so having a job in NC is the first step to getting out of VA. Any advice?
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So ironic....Our first placement that went on to an adoptive family who also wanted to move out of state. (Wasn't initially planned that way, but he was offered a great position.) They moved the day after finalization. The dad had actually gone out there a couple months or so earlier and came back every so often to visit and then for the adoption finalization. We had dinner with them the night before finalization and they were telling their story of trying to get finalization moved up so the family could move sooner. So the day of their finalization they came home and finished packing and headed out of town the next morning.
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When our boys were little we had finalized on our oldest but the little one was still in RU. We were military and we knew that we were adopting him since his brother was already ours. We were allowed to move without TPR while still in RU because the bio mom never made even 1 visit in the almost 2 years that kid was alive. I think they can offer some kind of waiver if your willing to come back for meetings or courts. We flew from North Carolina to California to adopt our second son and I did that with a specialized power of atty because DH couldnt get off as he was in the field. They can work it out for you!