Safe Surrender?

Our DD might as well have been a safe surrender because after Bmom gave birth no one saw her. She didn't even see DD. We sometimes wonder about her and what we will tell our DD when she gets older but we are so happy and in love with our DD and being a family that we have decided to just live life and take it one day at a time. The only time we wished we had more info was back in January when DD was sick (nothing serious just winter cough and Fever) the Doctor was asking for medical history info and we had to say we don't know. Luckily it wasn't serious but I did have a moment of "darn I wish we knew"