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There's a big difference between being okay with our kids searching, lending them support etc. and our own feelings about it all.
Just like a lot of adoptees say their search has nothing to do with their love for their aparents, often our feelings in regards to the bfamilies or how the search is done etc. has nothing to do with our love for our kids.
Sometimes aparents really get a crappy end of the deal during/after reunion and need support for it. It's not talke about that much because after all, there's a mindset amongst many that we are just supposed to shut up and support our kids during reunion, no matter what.
Doesn't mean there aren't feelings about it though. kwim?
Reunion is tricky for many reasons and I wish everyone had far more support and information/mediation when going into it.
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