Birth Mother that doesn't want a relationship with birth daughter

I opted to edit this because I felt bad about how angry I allowed myself to be initially. I don't believe you should create a person if you don't want a relationship with them. However, since that is in the past ... you gave birth so it is no longer just your family. It's hers too. You get to choose that DNA doesn't mean anything to you. You can't make that choice for others. The United Nation's spells out the human rights issues concerning adoption in the Convention of the Rights of a Child. You should read them and maybe offer a lesson on human rights and forgiveness to your church.