Bmom's parents warning against open adoption

If I found out that my son's aparents had been checking me out with my folks before I placed him, I would have declined the match.You need to focus on the relationship with the emom. I will say it was a curiousity to me that she is buying you and your children gifts. Does she think she needs to buy your affections?I would highly recommend that you not think of this woman a birth mom, and not your birth mom, as she is simply an expectant mother at this time. It protects your heart and keeps some appropriate distance in your relationship should she decide to parent which is always a possibility.