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It's your birthday. If you want to celebrate it, celebrate it.
You shouldn't feel bad for someone elses mistakes. Your birth "mom" chose her life choices, and she has to deal with them.
Your being miserable on her birthday won't do either her or you any good, anyway.
It's harsh of her to vent her pain by saying "no, why would it be." I would ignore her, and go have a nice cocktail and dinner. It's your party, she can cry if she wants to... or make you cry if she wants to. Don't let her belittle you. She made her choices, you made yours. Her mistakes shouldn't hinder your celebration of your life.