DCF saying no to Open Adoption Agreement

Our area tells me "DCS does not do open adoptions." That there is a reason they filed a TPR to begin with. In my opinion, I think there are times when it would be ok (and obviously times where it would not!). Sorry I don't really have any advice for you, just info that I don't think it's uncommon that DCS/DCF would not want to "settle" or agree to an open adoption. I think if they "admitted" to "some" contact thru an open adoption would be ok, they would be agreeing that the relationship was not without hope and therefore foster car should continue. If that makes sense... I hope they are able to iron things out for all of you quickly and easily!