Adoptee how would you feel if you found out your birth mom was trying to contact you?

I'd love to think my bmom wanted information about me, and reached out. I'd be more than a little ticked if I found out my parents knew information, and didn't share it.I think it's pretty common for teenagers to NOT talk to their parents about adoption. Actually, I think a lot of us adoptees never discuss it with our parents as children because we feel it would hurt their feelings, or cause problems. It's very possible the aparents are telling the truth and operating under what they assume is your sons wishes. I hope this turns your way soon. The wait is hard.