Adoptee how would you feel if you found out your birth mom was trying to contact you?

I'm sorry you are hurting. Did they say if they had talked to him about it?Just to give you some hope... A good friend of ours is an adoptee. At around the same age (15, I think he said) his birthmom contacted the AP's. He said no to any contact, and told his parents he didn't want them to send his picture to anyone. Now, in his early 30's, he has said that he isn't interested in searching, but if he was contacted he would want to meet her (them).So, all that to say that teenage boys are a breed of their own. He may come around in a few years. (But I am sure it is hard to wait)