At an impasse

flopshot,Nine months is a short period of time in reunion world. She is probably still reeling from the contact.It, of course, is your right to contact other b-family members, but just know that doing so could jeopardize your chances at having a future relationship with you b-mom. Out of respect for my mother's privacy, I decided not to contact other b-family members. Also, I've learned a bit about my halflings on FB, and I don't have anything in common with them. So, it would have just been a drive-by reunion, and I didn't want to shake up their world or hers for just a quick hello and goodbye. With who they are and who I am, I determined that we probably would not have been able to sustain a relationship. Why open that can of worms just to say I exist?I'm not trying to dissuade you from your decision. Just think it out. Weigh the pros and cons. You'll figure out what's best for you. (What works for me may not work for you.)Best.