Older Child Adoption: The Good, The Bad & The Ugly

kids cant ruin your life... dont adopt an older child, if you already see them as a "problem" and not a child who desperately needs love... its really damaging when adoptive parents are like "wow, this thing is a problem" or "i want a refund" is how it seems... imagine yourself beaten, neglected, raped, or abandoned as a child... would YOU be "defective"? be careful, and buy a "good" one!