Identity and Birthparents

I have frequently wondered what one will be more difficult to explain. DS - your BF is not involved because he choose not to take part in your life. DD - your BF was supportive of adoption. Here is your medical and social background that he filled out for you. But, he is not part of your life because he made some poor choices that have led to his imprisonment. Not sure how this is going to go. Thanks for your perspective! Mandy