Heavey Heart

I think this is the one thing I was never prepared for in our match. My son's bmom had a 4 year old and a 14 mo old and an abusive husband (not to mention a drug problem.) My heart broke for her!! I even tried to find her resources to help her (my hubby thought I was nuts!) I feel your pain, and I'm so sorry this is hard for you. But this is her choice and all you can really do is be there for her and let her know you support her and care for her. I will say, though, that your bond to her will make this easier in the long run.