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Something that has popped into my mind lately. When I have kids, how will the bparent/aparent thing be handled then?
It's something that worries me a little. I mentioned this line of thought to my asister one time and she told me that I 'do too much' but she says that about pretty much any of my adoption-related feelings. You know, something she really isn't in a place to judge.
I'm curious to know how other adoptees have managed this (as far as the role of birth parents vs adoptive parents as grandparents, involvement, etc.)
I don't think my amom will treat my kids any different than the child my asister (her bio daughter) has, but I fear the opposite with my adad and I know if he says some of the things to my kids that he's said to me, I might have to pull the ghetto out and throw down.
Thoughts?