told my family about reunion - it didn't go well

June 20, 2013

Originally Posted by Dickons

Momus,

Why should the sibling who was attacked be the one to make nice? Why shouldn't the one who wasn't nice be the one expected to be the one offering apologies.

Momus

You mean, the one in full protective mode because she feels her sister has intentionally wounded her mother?

Shrug. Seems like that might take a while.

For the record, I never suggested that emerald should be offering anyone any apologies. Based on what she's written, she hasn't done anything wrong.

Momus,

Perhaps you should read my comment again - I'm pretty good at being specific in my wording...

From your comments it appears you think searching is being disloyal but I would question how it could be when you aren't looking to replace your parents that you have, rather just finding the parents who brought you into this world.

So glad mom and dad made it very clear they did not think that way...just wish all parents were so secure.

Kind regards,

Dickons