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Yes, off course!Not everyone believe in racism...
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I'm late to this but my wife and I adopted a white boy and neither of us is white. I don't think our experience has been drastically different from that of other transracial families, but I had another foster/adoptive mother (white) ask us how we ended up with a white child and then say that it "made sense" after she learned that he is Deaf. I felt like she was saying we weren't good enough for a "normal" white child but it "makes sense" because my son isn't good enough for a white family. Oh, and we had the opposite hair issues - my son has super curly hair that his bio family had no idea how to handle, so my wife and I taught him how to comb it and grow it out without it being wild
Being a white family raising black adoptive children i can say that the environment you raise them in is a HUGE factor. We live in a melting pot of all different races and no one treats them any differently. I will not and will never let someone treat any of my children differently based on race. I wouldnt let them be around people that are so out of touch and ridiculous. Now that being said that doesnt mean that there wont be "those" type of people who are just pure ignorant in their lives . I cant control everything. I will teach them how to cope and deal with those idiots and I will also teach my white children how to cope with those idiots and how to stand up for what is right. I googled and asked all my of my bi-racial / black friends about hair care, skin care, mental health, what to make sure to teach them about profiling and such just to make sure they are not naive about the subject but I do not want to center their lives around thinking other people are judging them either. Its a fine line and balance. This is why I say, the people you raise your children around , the places you go, and the way you react to those dumb people is what will help your child know their worth. This is what is important. Teaching everyone about right and wrong and how to love everyone is also going to help our children and our childrens children.
Last update on May 15, 9:15 am by EL.
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Honestly this question saddens me to read. of course, we are all human. as Jesus said 'there is neither Jew nor Greek but all are one in Christ. now as far as success with hair care for example, you will need a little training in that department; but the 'Natural Hair Hair Growth eGuide Calendar' or the listening to it on audio, makes that easy. its fun for the parents and the children to use. not sure if we can leave links but you can search it on google and the site will come up. Anything else is no difference no matter what race. With the Love of Jesus all things work out successfully:)
Last update on April 18, 11:12 am by JesusLoves Adoption.
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