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So my last post was about AD13 claims that I was showing favoritism toward BD10, etc. Well, now I'm even more concerned. DH and I went on a long weekend trip and all three girls stayed at grandma's house. I'm picking them up today. My mother in law called me with extreme concern. Apparently it blew up at her house enough for her to get very concerned about how AD13 is negatively influencing and manipulating DD10. How do I handle this with love and care to BOTH daughters and keep AD13 from thinking I'm "showing favoritism"?
I don't know if this will solve everything, but I think it may bring more positivity if you take them on individual dates out with you. That will give each daughter a chance to have some one-on-one with you and a heart-to-heart expressing their emotions without the other one lurking around the corner. I would praise the heck out of their good behaviors and keep expressing love whenever possible.
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